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Take one cup of love, two cups of loyalty, three cups of forgiveness, four quarts of faith and one barrel of laughter. Take love and loyalty and mix them thoroughly with faith; blend with tenderness, kindness and understanding. Add friendship and hope. Sprinkle abundantly with laughter. Bake it with sunshine. Wrap it regularly with lots of hugs. Serve generous helpings daily.

Zig Ziglar
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rhiannonloveisnotarobot said:do i spy an affect theory reader on that shelf next to what looks like On The Road and Junot Diaz? our bookshelves would be friends

You do! Our bookshelves would be friends & we’re friends & UGH I MISS YOU

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  • #but rhiannon #rhiannoonloveisnotarobot
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  • #selfie
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He starts it off, as they always do, by saying,
“I still want to be friends” but I am already
on the next subway, the next taxi, the next whatever.
I am thinking about dinner that night, or the next night:
Angus beef, sauteed chicken, mahi mahi fish tacos.
I am thinking about the coffee pot and runner’s knee
and how much money I have in my savings. I am
thinking about hypothermia and missing bodies;
all the knives in my bed. I am thinking about how
the very word promise sounds more like an undoing.
I am thinking about the easiness of mouths.
How they open. How they give so much but also
about how they take away the things our minds
have committed to that permanent place of the brain,
where memories continue to rattle around long after
we’ve stopped shaking. I am thinking about how
he has turned me into a lake and I’ve never learned
how to swim. I am thinking about how I now have to
unlearn all of his secrets. Become a tourist to his body
again, blink against the hurt. I am thinking about
expensive hair cuts and retail therapy, dressing room
girls who are used to outlandish requests from customers.
I am thinking that this isn’t a dress my mother
would approve of, but honey, I look so good in red.

Kristina Haynes, “The Breakup Sweats” (via fleurishes)
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  • #everything about this rn #my heart hurts
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That’s what people do who love you. They put their arms around you and love you when you’re not so lovable.

 Deb Caletti (via feellng)
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I don’t want to be “sort of dating” someone. I don’t want to be “kinda hanging out” with someone. I don’t want to spend a lot of energy suppressing my feelings so I appear uninvolved. I want to be involved. I want to be sleeping with someone I know I’ll see again because they’ve already demonstrated to me that they’re trustworthy and honorable — and into me.

(via eyescreamz)

(via onceyougorandi)

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  • #i said basically this to my on-again off-again whatever it was tonight when he called to be vulnerable and apologize #we are officially actually over
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What I remember most about emotional abuse is that it’s like being put in a box. How you end up in there is the biggest trick – I never managed to work that one out. Maybe you think it’s a treasure box at first: you’re in there because you’re special. Soon the box starts to shrink. Every time you touch the edges there is an “argument”. So you try to make yourself fit. You curl up, become smaller, quieter, remove the excessive, offensive parts of your personality – you begin to notice lots of these. You eliminate people and interests, change your behaviour. But still the box gets smaller. You think it’s your fault. The terrible, unforgivable too-muchness of you is to blame. You don’t realise that the box is shrinking, or who is making it smaller. You don’t yet understand that you will never, ever be tiny enough to fit, or silent enough to avoid a row

It’s time to make emotional abuse a crime - Lauren Laverne (via ninja-suffragette)
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  • #tw #trigger warning #emotional abuse
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  • #dream home
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sometimes it’s just v important to listen to shitty pop & country music while at one of my two soulsucking jobs after the cutting off of people and hair and wardrobes and thoughts to remind myself i’m still an incredible and intelligent full person worthy of love cause dammit yes i still believe in things like real love and smiles and friendship and day drinking and sometimes i’m sappy as fuck and feel everything so deeply and if someone doesn’t wanna be in my life cause of that then whatever

things are happening and people believe in me and sometimes i wanna cry from the lovely weight of that reality

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  • #im actually finally doing really well
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bustysaintclair:

Kids please don’t think that it’s unusual or special to be dating someone with whom you can watch netflix and eat pizza and hold hands and also have hot sex with

It concerns me when I see millions of notes on a post that’s like “fuck me hard but also be sweet with me”

Like what kinds of relationships are you in that you think this is a revolutionary thing to ask

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